Thursday, March 15, 2018

The Arena

In ancient times men battled in large arenas providing a huge spectacle of violence and death. Who would think today we face the same barbaric display, albeit by other fashion. There most certainly is something wrong with the world today.

When politicians are elected in spite of their dishonesty and moral and ethical failings. When those same politicians take food, medicine, housing, rights from the weakest amongst us. When good people jump into that arena in rage.

The struggle has never been a war. It is simply right and wrong. There is no war of ideologies. There is no war period! There is however an abundance of selfishness and greed. Toss in an unhealthy dose of self importance.

We have so many problems and as I have written for some time now the answer is and always has been love. It is simply up to you to overcome your self imposed limitations. Pain, upset, anger... realize all those are the expressions of things wrought unto your life.

The challenge, the struggle, is to overcome and love rather than lash out.  We may fall at times but if we love we can again stand. There is no greater pride than standing in love.

Confront the wrongs in the world. Do so with love. We all falter and we all hurt. Let us not add any more. It is time to heal.

So now you know what the arena is. That vile pit where some in their own hurt, pain, selfishness, and self importance seek to draw you into in order to bring you down to their level. Just a warning, never go in. For it is a pit of vipers and their bites will linger long and painfully upon your flesh.

Confront the wrong, confront the pains. Stand and defy those who dare introduce an arena. As a community we most notably know about hiding. We should be able to spot those who hide things in the guise of vicious debate and personal berating.

Anyone who would tear you down and not help you rebuild or heal deserves nothing from you but defiance. Let them know in no uncertain terms NO!  No you will not stand for their vile actions and their war against anyone who does not benefit them.

Go in peace. Go in love. Go with surety.

The world is ours and it always has been. All of ours! The time of anyone being ignored, hurt, abused, or even murdered is done. Do not allow ancient gladiators to drag you back to a time when pain was acceptable and not everyone mattered.

It is a big world with countless peoples all with different lives and ideas. We all matter and we all deserve love. We all deserve peace.  Equality, dignity, respect, compassion, and love are! They are not a thing for debate, legislation, or voting.

One day we will have our day in the sun. Nothing to hide. Just the warm bask of a bright day where no monsters hide in wait and the warmth of love lets us know the only struggle is within ourselves.

Overcome and stand. It has been to long a night. And love has to long waited

Ignore the arena in your life. Justice is the answer not the fight. If the clothing of justice is love then no one wants.

Love is Never Wrong!

Saturday, February 3, 2018

Dangerous Ideas and Trends

I don't care to be in the negative on things in life. I believe people should have a great deal of lee-way and room to make mistakes. However; a dangerous trend is appearing in LGBT media. Compassion and Humanity must exist for all of us but endorsing and enabling self-destructive behavior is not either of those.

Some will greatly disagree with me on some of the positions I am about to take and you are entitled to your thoughts but I shall have nothing to do with harmful actions.

First of all you have the right to be free and equal. That being said you do not have the right to revenge, special rights, or freedom to do anything. Freedom is a glorious thing but to much is bad like anything else.

Sex! It is not my place to comment on what adults do in their bedrooms as long as it is consensual and not harmful. However listing yourself like a market product on a hook up app is not healthy. Neither is the wide use of nude pics to entice people. If your aim is truly happiness why are you giving all your intimate details before you even meet someone?

Anonymous sex may be a form of release but it is very bad for the soul. Look for love and love yourself in the process. You are not a product to be displayed, ogled, and touched by whoever roams about. You are wonderful person and if someone can not appreciate you or wait for you without such things then they are not a person you want to be with.

Oh I have heard the odd success story but if you follow that person up it still falls apart. Lust is not love. Now if you choose to live that life by all means do so but realize what you seek and it's costs. Love is much more precious.

Alright now about sex workers that seems to pop up in our media so much. I don't condemn people in such professions but I will not endorse it either. And in no case should it be considered normal. I do not see it healthy to have a society that young people aspire to such work. It is a dangerous path. As I said before even the best intentions and goals can be eroded by constantly giving yourself in such ways. You put a price on yourself. You to become a product instead of a person. And because of it people think of you as a product.

Each and every one of us is priceless. We can fail and make mistakes. We can be free spirits. But always love! Love yourself!

Drug use... whether it is a problem or recreational this is a bad idea. Giving up some amount of self control to a substance just so you can avoid thoughts, ideas, stress... It is not a solution and it is not a enhancement. It is avoidance from facing realities and making better choices. Love my dears, love! Love you, love your body, and love having fun without the need for drugs. Life is a wonderful high if you just give it a chance. 

Racism/discrimination what can I say. It is all to often some people don't practice what they preach in life. They are perfectly happy dismissing or alienating those they don't care for in life. Get over it! Whether someone is feminine or masculine,  black, white, yellow..., thin or heavy, hairy or smooth, tall or short... It does not matter.  If you are not attracted to certain traits that is fine. That is Human nature and desire. However brutally criticizing and completely eliminating such people form your lives is cruel and all that you seek others to not do to you.

Be open in life. Some of the greatest people you will meet will be in those wide categories you rule as not your type. We are the rainbow. Without all those wonderful colors we diminish the beauty that is us. I don't know about you but I find it all beautiful.

There are other things I could say right now but these are the most important. Life should be about love and you should love life. You should love your life. It is the people who seek to steal your love you need to worry about. Don't feed into them by selling your love to them. Love and value yourself as a priceless masterpiece.

A masterpiece is wonderful work of art that ravages our soul with thoughts, ideas, desires, beauty,  and yes love.  It should be rare and precious. It is not a mass produced image in a cheap frame touched by hundreds before someone buys it. It is unique and one of a kind. Value your masterpiece properly else all you will ever have is market you sell it upon.

Love is priceless. It is us who fail to realize its value. To all of you I wish you love in all things!

Love is Never Wrong!

Tuesday, December 12, 2017


Have you ever wondered how freedom gets eradicated? You have Jew vs. Muslim, Black vs. White, Christian vs. Gay, dismiss all things respectable, and use others to do your bidding for you. Amazing how the tired, hungry, poor, ignored, and ambitious can all be offered scraps from a table to unify behind one that in plain sight divides them and takes more away than they receive or had to begin with.

So how do you hold on to freedom? You stand together, the many, the whole. You celebrate your differences and you help the fallen. You love! You gaze upon the divider and in one voice say NO!

Please don't fall into the trap of division and strife. Don't get drug into the muddy pits of unsavory debate. Return love in the face of hate.  And yes, use your voice, your will, and your hearts to say NO!

Freedom is so precious and so hard to get back once you lose it. Rise above, dismiss those that deceive and serve all. When we love others as ourselves the world truly becomes free and that seed of love is tomorrow blossom of our hearts.

Love is Never Wrong!

Friday, November 17, 2017


With so many scandals of late we should discuss ethics. It is a difficult topic for some but a necessary one for society.

Ethics are essentially how we treat each other. As you can guess love should be the rule of the day. What I can tell you it is not just about our failures. Many of us in life fail or fall from grace. The true test of ethics is how do we proceed after such.

Everyone talks about what is wrong and how you should treat others but few talk about if what you do if you fail or fall. So lets discuss that.

When we fall in any way we must examine ourselves. We must ask the hard questions of where did things go wrong. Why did we stumble into a path of despair. We must ask ourselves who did we hurt and how can we make right.

The trick with ethics is even after a fall we must continue and rebuild ourselves. It is not easy but neither is love. That quite frankly is usually the problem. At some point we stop using love and disregard someone somewhere for some reason.

I've stumbled many times in my life. I have even fallen. But I accept my errors as best I can and try to pick myself up and learn. Hopefully I can make right for whatever I have done or do better in the future. Because that is part of ethics. Always acknowledge your failures as well as your success.

When you acknowledge both you show you are trying. You show you care enough to learn and heal. You show love.

The reasons why we fall are many. Sometimes it is out of our hands and we get drawn into things unintentionally. Sometimes we dive in.  The latter being the worst. As I have mentioned before we must approach people and life with love.

I realize we are not perfect but neither is love. It requires work, support, and so much devoted energy. Sometimes we have to forgive ourselves and sometimes others. Sometimes we must forgive the unforgivable.

Life is not perfect and neither are we. I think that is the point though. We all have flaws. The only way to work with each other is to hold a standard of compassion and love. When we abandon that then we are in an ethical quandary.

Oh I could tell you so many times in my life people have left deep and bitter scars. There have been times in deep pain I lashed back at them. There have been times I lashed out at whoever stumbled upon a deeply hurt soul.

However I can, I try. I don't have every answer or idea how to fix it all but I do try. In that I love. I forgive, both myself and others. It is and always has been the origin of a problem for which we must resolve and heal. For without this we only treat the symptoms.

As for ethics we should begin in honesty, dignity, respect, and yes love. People may not return it but we must try. We may feel the sting of reprisal for falling but it is a result of our path. Sometimes we end up in thorns.

Justice in such matters vary. It is difficult to tally up a response because every persons pain is different. However, it must be done. It is an ethical soul that when they hurt acknowledges their pains and accepts censure or punishment to balance the pain.

And if it is justice it will not outweigh the pain caused. It is just as much about love when we deal justice as it is when we pay for it. We must acknowledge our imperfections in judgement as well as payment.

Love is our only path if we are to ever exist and thrive as a society. Without it you will only know pain and division. It is not perfect and we may be hurt but if we refuse to give up and do try then we give love a chance. And in the end love is the only thing that will heal us.

The ethical soul lives in and for love. It knows when to pay and when to forgive. It is the anvil of  of perfection.

I am imperfect but I love. As such it makes my path that which leads to perfection even with all my flaws. Please lead an ethical life and choose love. It serves us all.

Love is Never Wrong!

Friday, October 13, 2017

The Game

I'm sure many of us know the grand game we are sucked into by racists, bigots, radicals, and so many more. They seek to debate and contest everything about us. They are much like a street hustler with a shell or card game. Their slights of hand and speech distract you from the perceived target so that you fail.

So how do we win this game that seeks to question our very lives and existence? It is simple. We don't play the game.

If someone is engaging you in slight of hand and speech you don't engage a ruse. If you do you are then reacting and the it now becomes their timetable and structure. Never dignify the thoughts or ideas that tear people apart or cause them harm.  You only validate their views as worthy of debate.

By no means ignore them either. In time they can entice and stir up those who are not informed or educated enough on things. You do however walk up to them eye to eye and you tell them:  How dare you question another Humans dignity. How dare you try and treat a fellow citizen as anything less than equal. How dare you even consider violence or murder towards another as a preemptive strike. How dare you treat people as anything less than Human.

Look them in the eye, stand! Do not back down. Do not waiver. Ignore their slights of hand and speech. Condemn the man who would even think of demeaning or hurting another simple because they exist.

This is not about violence but they may very well make it so. If that occurs then defend yourself in and with love. Know even in their violence it is a distraction not meant for you but for others. They will use it as evidence they are being persecuted for their beliefs.

Love, Honor, Dignity, and Justice are the only discussions and actions in a true society. Anything else is a disservice to someone. And when someone is treated so we are all in danger, for it never stops there. In time we all become judged and targets.

Never play the game. Love and love with surety. Those who seek to play with your lives can not survive in love. Hate is their game.

Love is Never Wrong!

Saturday, October 7, 2017


Let us talk a bit about limits today. It seems to be all the rage in talk of late. Some people talk of limiting gun laws. Some want to limit LGBT rights. Others want to limit police power. It does not matter which aspect is chosen as it does the very topic.

Normally I walk you down a path of understanding to a conclusion. Today let us go directly to the point. There are no set limitations to your life. However you must also be accountable to your actions. As such you have no authority over anyone but yourself.

For the sake of a greater achievement and unity sometimes we come together and set rules or goals for us to work by. All is fine if each and every person is respected. However when you decided to limit or harm another it is you who are in violation of the ultimate rule of life.

All people are sovereign and all are priceless. Sometimes we lose our way, get scared, hurt beyond belief, or even go mad. It does not dismiss the rules of sovereignty, however.  In order to be sovereign you must love. 

Love is the anvil from which all things are lain in judgement. It allows us the understanding to take into context our actions and those of others. For without it you remove Humanity. And when you do that you have lost all authority, even over yourself.

One can commit a horrible murder but do we stop at the surface or look further. The question should always be why. Who or what pushed a person to such an extreme?  Was there any other path or anyone to prevent such a path? Did anyone bother to try to intervene in such a path? The questions are many.

There are few absolutes in our existence. One however is love. Never turn it off. Never judge without it. Never deny it.

So back to our point, limits. When do we limit power or authority? We do not unless the sovereignty of one or many have been affected. However with that statement goes the fact only the one who has violated said sovereignty shall be limited.

You can argue people need restraints or modesty. You can argue a need for security. However if you can not in love be fair to all your point has no merit.

The truth is and always has been that we and I are the same. Guilty until proven innocent, punished for the acts of others, censored for disagreement, murdered for existence... Examples of a lack of love.

Whatever or whoever you chose to limit must be held to the anvil of love. It is only Human.

So can you love another and accept all the vulnerabilities that come with that? Can you accept it may cause you pain? Can you accept it may charge you? Love is the heights and depths of the Human soul.

There are no limitations except for those which you set for yourself. Set those in love else it is you for which the anvil shall judge. Hopefully you judged with love. Anything else is inhuman.

Love is Never Wrong!

Monday, October 2, 2017


In these times we must look beyond the surface and search for the roots of our problems. We must hold people accountable for their words and actions. We must enlighten.

We live in an age where people seem to have lost connection and responsibility. From the highest office to the entertainment and media we see a society that strives for more; more fame, more power, more money.

Anything to achieve their goals seems to be the rule they employ. But I say no. You are accountable and always shall be. When your words and actions drive people to extremes, depression, insanity, or even death you bear that sin. You bear that sin alone.

It matters how you achieve your goals. People are not toys to be manipulated, isolated, subjugated or hurt. They are free. I don't care if you agree. It is so!

When you harm you become evil, even if only slightly. This world is ours, all of ours. It is our lives, not just yours. It is one thing to wage a campaign of thought evolution and wider vision. It is another to limit, harm, or remove those you disagree with.

As I said it is a sin. You who originate it bear it alone. Those you have hurt, misguided, or enthralled must still pay their dues but you who lain its origin bear its weight, alone.

Society is not a perfect place and never will be. If it did become so we would stop being Human. All people are not on the same level of development or thought. Taking advantage of those who do not know any better or are not ready to change is wrong.

Prompting change by any means necessary is evil. Pushing people by any means necessary is evil. Hurting people by any means necessary is evil.

You are accountable for your words and actions and by proxy those you drive before you. The good soul will hurt when they see though your lies and deceptions and hurt for all things. The origin however must carry that sin.

This is not a battle of good vs. evil. It is a quest for justice. For justice allows all accounts to be settled.

Everyone is accountable and everyone has things on their account. The question is do we right them.

Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote "No man can have society upon his own terms."  I disagree. When we achieve justice and strive for justice all are served. Will we have perfect terms? No! Will we have acceptable terms? Yes!

You see when you love and it is true your heart can forgive and mend. When you love, you make right however you can. You can not erase all that has gone before but you can love. Love sustains. Love heals.

My terms for life are love. Maybe one day everyone will know such grace.

Love is Never Wrong!