I don't care to be in the negative on things in life. I believe people should have a great deal of lee-way and room to make mistakes. However; a dangerous trend is appearing in LGBT media. Compassion and Humanity must exist for all of us but endorsing and enabling self-destructive behavior is not either of those.
Some will greatly disagree with me on some of the positions I am about to take and you are entitled to your thoughts but I shall have nothing to do with harmful actions.
First of all you have the right to be free and equal. That being said you do not have the right to revenge, special rights, or freedom to do anything. Freedom is a glorious thing but to much is bad like anything else.
Sex! It is not my place to comment on what adults do in their bedrooms as long as it is consensual and not harmful. However listing yourself like a market product on a hook up app is not healthy. Neither is the wide use of nude pics to entice people. If your aim is truly happiness why are you giving all your intimate details before you even meet someone?
Anonymous sex may be a form of release but it is very bad for the soul. Look for love and love yourself in the process. You are not a product to be displayed, ogled, and touched by whoever roams about. You are wonderful person and if someone can not appreciate you or wait for you without such things then they are not a person you want to be with.
Oh I have heard the odd success story but if you follow that person up it still falls apart. Lust is not love. Now if you choose to live that life by all means do so but realize what you seek and it's costs. Love is much more precious.
Alright now about sex workers that seems to pop up in our media so much. I don't condemn people in such professions but I will not endorse it either. And in no case should it be considered normal. I do not see it healthy to have a society that young people aspire to such work. It is a dangerous path. As I said before even the best intentions and goals can be eroded by constantly giving yourself in such ways. You put a price on yourself. You to become a product instead of a person. And because of it people think of you as a product.
Each and every one of us is priceless. We can fail and make mistakes. We can be free spirits. But always love! Love yourself!
Drug use... whether it is a problem or recreational this is a bad idea. Giving up some amount of self control to a substance just so you can avoid thoughts, ideas, stress... It is not a solution and it is not a enhancement. It is avoidance from facing realities and making better choices. Love my dears, love! Love you, love your body, and love having fun without the need for drugs. Life is a wonderful high if you just give it a chance.
Racism/discrimination what can I say. It is all to often some people don't practice what they preach in life. They are perfectly happy dismissing or alienating those they don't care for in life. Get over it! Whether someone is feminine or masculine, black, white, yellow..., thin or heavy, hairy or smooth, tall or short... It does not matter. If you are not attracted to certain traits that is fine. That is Human nature and desire. However brutally criticizing and completely eliminating such people form your lives is cruel and all that you seek others to not do to you.
Be open in life. Some of the greatest people you will meet will be in those wide categories you rule as not your type. We are the rainbow. Without all those wonderful colors we diminish the beauty that is us. I don't know about you but I find it all beautiful.
There are other things I could say right now but these are the most important. Life should be about love and you should love life. You should love your life. It is the people who seek to steal your love you need to worry about. Don't feed into them by selling your love to them. Love and value yourself as a priceless masterpiece.
A masterpiece is wonderful work of art that ravages our soul with thoughts, ideas, desires, beauty, and yes love. It should be rare and precious. It is not a mass produced image in a cheap frame touched by hundreds before someone buys it. It is unique and one of a kind. Value your masterpiece properly else all you will ever have is market you sell it upon.
Love is priceless. It is us who fail to realize its value. To all of you I wish you love in all things!
Love is Never Wrong!
