I always try to support gay cinema and LGBT friendly shorts. So today I have Cold Star a unique short with many lessons to teach. Some not so blatant. So I hope you enjoy this link.
Love is Never Wrong
Saturday, August 27, 2011
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Games
Today I have something light for your enjoyment. Games, most of us enjoy them but maybe now and then we want to get a perspective or just play with others who share who we are.
Gay Gamer is a gaming site focused toward the LGBT community.
http://www.gaygamer.net/
Love is Never Wrong
Gay Gamer is a gaming site focused toward the LGBT community.
http://www.gaygamer.net/
Love is Never Wrong
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
The Power of Change
Since my friend Biki asked this question I thought I would answer it for everyone. How do we change people who bear us ill will?
In my experience such things come from from fear, ignorance, or anger. The first two are usually taught or a lack of willingness to change. Anger is usually a sense of being wronged or generally being upset their lot in life is being ignored.
Needless to say the power to change anyone's point of view is not yours. People have to change on their own. They have to be willing to change and as much as you will them to, you can not make them. In fact most people will rile harder against you the harder you try to force change.
So how can we make change. True and lasting change always begins in you. Will you get bogged down in a war waged in hate or rise above it and continue your life? Will you allow people to vent there venomous tirade while remaining calm and unwavering? Will you extend an olive branch even after a dagger in the back?
The path to change as I said begins in you. You have to be willing to love even when your hated. You have to be willing to do good when you are portrayed as evil. You have to educate when ignorance is afoot. You have to be you, a truer thing in deed.
Only tireless vigilance can begin the path of change but ultimately people have to make that change in themselves. So vanquish the fear with love, educate away the ignorance, and reply to anger with love. Then, and only then may change begin to occur.
If you want change, be it. Its that simple. You may not always succeed but change is not always about just what you perceive. Sometimes your efforts affect things in ways you never know. And that benefits us all.
So be the change and live a life of love.
Love is Never Wrong
In my experience such things come from from fear, ignorance, or anger. The first two are usually taught or a lack of willingness to change. Anger is usually a sense of being wronged or generally being upset their lot in life is being ignored.
Needless to say the power to change anyone's point of view is not yours. People have to change on their own. They have to be willing to change and as much as you will them to, you can not make them. In fact most people will rile harder against you the harder you try to force change.
So how can we make change. True and lasting change always begins in you. Will you get bogged down in a war waged in hate or rise above it and continue your life? Will you allow people to vent there venomous tirade while remaining calm and unwavering? Will you extend an olive branch even after a dagger in the back?
The path to change as I said begins in you. You have to be willing to love even when your hated. You have to be willing to do good when you are portrayed as evil. You have to educate when ignorance is afoot. You have to be you, a truer thing in deed.
Only tireless vigilance can begin the path of change but ultimately people have to make that change in themselves. So vanquish the fear with love, educate away the ignorance, and reply to anger with love. Then, and only then may change begin to occur.
If you want change, be it. Its that simple. You may not always succeed but change is not always about just what you perceive. Sometimes your efforts affect things in ways you never know. And that benefits us all.
So be the change and live a life of love.
Love is Never Wrong
Sunday, August 21, 2011
To Struggle
One surety of being LGBT is we struggle in life. It is the one thing we all share and try to make less harsh for the generation after us. It is a long and difficult road and we must constantly repair flat tires, fill in potholes, and avoid sudden perils darting in front of us.
Lately I have heard so many share their struggles and that is a good thing. We make people aware of what we must endure. However it is also a sad thing. The hate, cruelty, and intense sadness that covers so many peoples lives can suck you in if you allow it. But that's not always a bad thing either.
So many of us turn our sensitive sides off to avoid the hurt and pain being waged against us. We try to deny it power but in the process take power from ourselves. One must integrate the negative things in life to truly grasp the positive. If someone lashes out at you remain calm and rise above it but allow it to sting or hurt. We should not lose our sensitivity to such things. If we do we then begin the path toward hate and unconcern. There is enough negativity in the world, don't add to it.
Our struggles are also with who we are. Society as a whole has few definitions of us. If they do it is usually wrong or badly interpreted. This adds to our difficult journey because most of us have to define ourselves and without the support of society many of us never feel comfortable or truly sure of ourselves.
Its not easy living life without role models, reassurance, or positive images of who you identify as. Many of us never know any accomplishments of the LGBT community or even that we can achieve. That is our struggle of education. Never allow the flame of knowledge be denied fuel to light the way. We are its caretakers and the guardians of those who follow us.
In life to be LGBT also means we are more likely to be abused, hurt, raped, abandoned, mentally ill, even killed all because someone somewhere refuses to acknowledge us as Human or love us unconditionally. It is a legacy of hate.
Still with all that is stacked against us I say be proud, stand tall, and be you. I would rather take my chances with the many perils of a road of horrors than to succumb to the smooth path of hate and intolerance. I would rather live a life of love and be alone than hide in fear. Denial of who we are does not serve us, in any form.
Survival sometimes mandates us to detour from ourselves but it should only be a temporary thing, not a lifestyle. Be true to yourself and one another. Be humble and know life's journey can be harsh. But most of all Love. Love yourself, love others, and love life.
Your path is your own and never fear walking it. It is only when you deviate from it you truly regret.
I know today I have listed many of the things so many don't talk about or mention when they give advice but they are there and to deny them denies your journey in life. Be proud of every pain and scar you receive because you are here and you are living your life as it should be. You are the triumph over hate and intolerance.
Love or hate? It's your choice but we all know what hate has wrought so try love. Life is not about the destination but the journey to it. So why even bother wasting precious time on things that will only make you miserable and tired.
You are the struggle! It's up to you to claim victory.
Love is Never Wrong
Lately I have heard so many share their struggles and that is a good thing. We make people aware of what we must endure. However it is also a sad thing. The hate, cruelty, and intense sadness that covers so many peoples lives can suck you in if you allow it. But that's not always a bad thing either.
So many of us turn our sensitive sides off to avoid the hurt and pain being waged against us. We try to deny it power but in the process take power from ourselves. One must integrate the negative things in life to truly grasp the positive. If someone lashes out at you remain calm and rise above it but allow it to sting or hurt. We should not lose our sensitivity to such things. If we do we then begin the path toward hate and unconcern. There is enough negativity in the world, don't add to it.
Our struggles are also with who we are. Society as a whole has few definitions of us. If they do it is usually wrong or badly interpreted. This adds to our difficult journey because most of us have to define ourselves and without the support of society many of us never feel comfortable or truly sure of ourselves.
Its not easy living life without role models, reassurance, or positive images of who you identify as. Many of us never know any accomplishments of the LGBT community or even that we can achieve. That is our struggle of education. Never allow the flame of knowledge be denied fuel to light the way. We are its caretakers and the guardians of those who follow us.
In life to be LGBT also means we are more likely to be abused, hurt, raped, abandoned, mentally ill, even killed all because someone somewhere refuses to acknowledge us as Human or love us unconditionally. It is a legacy of hate.
Still with all that is stacked against us I say be proud, stand tall, and be you. I would rather take my chances with the many perils of a road of horrors than to succumb to the smooth path of hate and intolerance. I would rather live a life of love and be alone than hide in fear. Denial of who we are does not serve us, in any form.
Survival sometimes mandates us to detour from ourselves but it should only be a temporary thing, not a lifestyle. Be true to yourself and one another. Be humble and know life's journey can be harsh. But most of all Love. Love yourself, love others, and love life.
Your path is your own and never fear walking it. It is only when you deviate from it you truly regret.
I know today I have listed many of the things so many don't talk about or mention when they give advice but they are there and to deny them denies your journey in life. Be proud of every pain and scar you receive because you are here and you are living your life as it should be. You are the triumph over hate and intolerance.
Love or hate? It's your choice but we all know what hate has wrought so try love. Life is not about the destination but the journey to it. So why even bother wasting precious time on things that will only make you miserable and tired.
You are the struggle! It's up to you to claim victory.
Love is Never Wrong
Thursday, August 4, 2011
The Ben Cohen Stand Up Foundatiuon
Today The Ben Cohen Stand Up Foundation launched its website. They are striving to end bullying and advance LGBT equality. Funds they raise go to the Human Rights Campaign, GLSEN, The Trevor Project, Campus Pride, The Matthew Sheppard Foundation, Stonewall (UK), Bully-Free Zone (UK). Please help them make a difference.
The Ben Cohen Stand Up Foundation
http://www.standupfoundation.com/
Here are links to those who are helped. Many of these have been listed before but they are always good links.
Human Rights Campaign
http://www.hrc.org/about_us/hrc-foundation.asp
GLSEN
http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/home/index.html
The Trevor Project
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
Campus Pride
http://www.campuspride.org/
The Matthew Sheppard Foundation
http://www.matthewshepard.org/
Stonewall (UK)
http://www.stonewall.org.uk/
Bully Free Zone (UK)
http://www.bullyfreezone.co.uk/
Love is Never Wrong
The Ben Cohen Stand Up Foundation
http://www.standupfoundation.com/
Here are links to those who are helped. Many of these have been listed before but they are always good links.
Human Rights Campaign
http://www.hrc.org/about_us/hrc-foundation.asp
GLSEN
http://www.glsen.org/cgi-bin/iowa/all/home/index.html
The Trevor Project
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
Campus Pride
http://www.campuspride.org/
The Matthew Sheppard Foundation
http://www.matthewshepard.org/
Stonewall (UK)
http://www.stonewall.org.uk/
Bully Free Zone (UK)
http://www.bullyfreezone.co.uk/
Love is Never Wrong
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
My Fabulous Disease
My fabulous Disease is the interesting story of Mark S. King and his journey as an HIV + gay man. I have followed Mark for some time in his writings on Bilerico Project and now and then on his YouTube channel. I like his spirit and openness. He truly has things to teach you and share. So please check out his story and learn what he has to offer.
Here is Mark's YouTube channel.
http://www.youtube.com/user/MyFabulousDisease
Here is Mark's latest article on Bilerico Project.
http://www.bilerico.com/2011/08/im_gonna_wipe_that_aids_right_off_of_my_face.php
Mark's website, My Fabulous Disease.
http://www.myfabulousdisease.com/
Love is Never Wrong
Here is Mark's YouTube channel.
http://www.youtube.com/user/MyFabulousDisease
Here is Mark's latest article on Bilerico Project.
http://www.bilerico.com/2011/08/im_gonna_wipe_that_aids_right_off_of_my_face.php
Mark's website, My Fabulous Disease.
http://www.myfabulousdisease.com/
Love is Never Wrong
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Sex, Gender, & Sexual Orientation
Chris is a very fun lady that found me on YouTube. After watching her videos I liked her spirit so I accepted a friend invite. One of her better videos is this one on sex, gender, and sexual orientation. I think it helps identify and demystify things. So here's Chris's breakdown. Enjoy!
Chris's channel is here.
http://www.youtube.com/user/ChristinaFoxx69
Love is Never Wrong
Chris's channel is here.
http://www.youtube.com/user/ChristinaFoxx69
Love is Never Wrong
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