Love is Never Wrong!
Thursday, March 31, 2016
Soical Media or a Vulture Picking at Old Wounds?
This is my second post today as I didn't want it to wait. It is a very harsh reality in modern society. It is bitter and cruel at the same time. I hope and pray none of you have to experience it.
Love is Never Wrong!
Love is Never Wrong!
When we Confuse Greed and Truth
I had a very interesting situation yesterday. While with family I was asked a question of why I could not do something so I answered honestly with I didn't have the money. I gave a bit of detail and the first reaction I got was "Well I don't have any."
This struck me twofold. One I was not asking for anything, merely explaining and secondly how insulting. This also struck me as a bigger trend in society as a whole. We hear a problem and we instantly excuse ourselves even when we are not being asked to help.
Don't get me wrong if you have no resources to help a situation fine. However to instantly remove yourself from reality when confronted with it is a harmful trait. Never recoil from truth. Take a break if you must but confront it.
Plenty of people in this world are hurting and in need. No one is asking you to take it on by yourself or even contribute to its solution but as is Human dignity you should embrace it. You should hear it and you should think about it.
The problems before us require all of us to solve, even if its a sympathetic ear and a hug. So before you rush to remove yourself from a situation you inquired about try making those in the situation feel better. There are many ways to help in life and most do not require money.
Try love it soothes wounds nothing else can heal.
Love is Never Wrong!
This struck me twofold. One I was not asking for anything, merely explaining and secondly how insulting. This also struck me as a bigger trend in society as a whole. We hear a problem and we instantly excuse ourselves even when we are not being asked to help.
Don't get me wrong if you have no resources to help a situation fine. However to instantly remove yourself from reality when confronted with it is a harmful trait. Never recoil from truth. Take a break if you must but confront it.
Plenty of people in this world are hurting and in need. No one is asking you to take it on by yourself or even contribute to its solution but as is Human dignity you should embrace it. You should hear it and you should think about it.
The problems before us require all of us to solve, even if its a sympathetic ear and a hug. So before you rush to remove yourself from a situation you inquired about try making those in the situation feel better. There are many ways to help in life and most do not require money.
Try love it soothes wounds nothing else can heal.
Love is Never Wrong!
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
To Touch Inifinity
You know so many people of faith cling to this or that. They believe this or that. So what is true? What is true to anyone who is LGBT?
If you have faith, in whatever God you choose, know this. Divine power and inspiration created you. Which means there is divine power flowing in you. You are not a god and should not assume such but you are a part of one and a part of infinity.
Think about that. You are the culmination of your life. You are that tiny bit of infinity. You have been graced with the ability to do your minds will and be whoever you are. That power in you may be tiny in comparison to the whole but if you have not figured it out you are part of the whole.
Your story, your life adds to that which is infinity. You know when I hear others say this or that about divine judgment I sigh slightly and want to remind them you are only one part of something so massive, so grand how can you say what infinity is?
Know this, there is no battle between Heaven and Hell. The only battle is within our own souls. Embrace yourself and the expression of your soul. If it is pure no one can judge it wrong. If they try also know it is them who disobeys free will and the power granted to you.
So where do LGBT people of faith belong? They belong in the radiant rainbow that soars above after hate ceases to fall and true hearts shine. Infinity is a very very large place. And all things have their place.
Touch infinity! For it awaits you to share your story adding it's brilliance to the whole.
Love is Never Wrong!
If you have faith, in whatever God you choose, know this. Divine power and inspiration created you. Which means there is divine power flowing in you. You are not a god and should not assume such but you are a part of one and a part of infinity.
Think about that. You are the culmination of your life. You are that tiny bit of infinity. You have been graced with the ability to do your minds will and be whoever you are. That power in you may be tiny in comparison to the whole but if you have not figured it out you are part of the whole.
Your story, your life adds to that which is infinity. You know when I hear others say this or that about divine judgment I sigh slightly and want to remind them you are only one part of something so massive, so grand how can you say what infinity is?
Know this, there is no battle between Heaven and Hell. The only battle is within our own souls. Embrace yourself and the expression of your soul. If it is pure no one can judge it wrong. If they try also know it is them who disobeys free will and the power granted to you.
So where do LGBT people of faith belong? They belong in the radiant rainbow that soars above after hate ceases to fall and true hearts shine. Infinity is a very very large place. And all things have their place.
Touch infinity! For it awaits you to share your story adding it's brilliance to the whole.
Love is Never Wrong!
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
What is Love? To me
Lately I have been going through some changes, an awakening if you will. A fog lifted from my life and before it were the true things I hold dear. What a wonderful feeling when you find such clarity and purpose. I knew what I had to do.
I reached out to some who were most dear to me and made time for them. I contacted the dearest in my heart and made an effort to say things I feel I must, to be spoken, to be complete. But he, for whatever reason, did not show interest. So I sit alone with heavy things weighing down my heart.
Being truthful I told some I know my heartache of being unsettled and hurt, knowing full well I will carry it until it gets satisfied. Their reply was forget him, don't let it get to you, find someone else to talk to...
You know those words are nice and practical to many but not me. My very core, its fabric, is love. To try and separate things from it would damage me irrevocably. I have always been this way. Some would say its obsession or a psychological disorder but it's not.
To me love is pure. I'm not saying I can not get jealous, have doubts, or lash out in rage if pushed enough. However I am saying everyone, no matter who, that has touched my heart is there no matter what they have done or chose to not be around me.
I've told you all about my time with T. He did some pretty horrible things to me and uprooted my life unjustly. Still I forgave him. It took me a long time but I forgave him. Even when he drove romantic love from my heart I still loved him and always shall. Love is me.
Let me describe it like this:
I am a favorite piece of clothing. I'm stunning and beautiful in your eyes. Yet my fabric loves to cling to lint which makes it unsettled in your eyes. So you take a lint brush and physically remove the lint. However you don't change the nature of the cloth. It still wants to cling. Maybe you use an anti-static spray to keep the lint at bay. You still don't change the nature of the fabric. You only place a barrier between it.
You can not change the nature of the fabric. Maybe your so desperate you try pulling out the threads that cling the most. Then you create runs which turn to holes, and eventually the fabric comes apart. Love when it's pure is forever. Try as you might if it is true it shall always be there. This is me.
Oh I get angry, tired, hurt like anyone else but it always comes to love. I always forgive and I always extend my hand. I don't give up on people. I try never to tear people down. My truth may hurt them at times but it comes with love which means it is always dignity and respect and from the heart.
Yes the pricks, tears, and pains carry with me for all time until peace can allow those pains to be surrendered unto the heart that needs to hear such. It may be scary or a tsunami of emotions but no one drowns in the warm gentle waves of true love. Because the simple truth is love raises you up to walk upon the waves.
You know I shared a lot about my time with M and the many things we dealt with and some of the wonders we attained. To this day I only want him to be happy. If he has found another I would be happy for love is taking care of him. With him love is also forever but his bears a special place in my heart. If I wrote a sonnet a day for a thousand years I could not express the feelings in my heart.
So I carry all I love in my heart for all time. Even when they cause me pain I carry that. Some of you may not understand that but pain can go with love and enduring separations, hardships, and denials
are one because they are connected to that love.
If my true love lived in Hell and I were in heaven I would clip my wings toss them to him so he could soar upwards as I jumped to the Earth. We would meet in embrace ignoring the protests from above and below because the truth of love is no price is to high when it is pure.
And for those of you with faith, know this. There is one thing Heaven and Hell have in common, love.
I could wax on about love as I already said but to clarify my topic title What is love? To me
I am love. All I touch are loved. All I connect with are love, for it is in them as well. So all those heartaches and pains some tell me to brush away or place a barrier to I say you can not change the nature of the fabric. And please don't damage me in your efforts to try for you will only destroy what is me.
The heartache and tears of a thousand years are nothing in the span of forever. And you know what? My love is forever. I hope each and every one of you gets a chance to know such grace. Till then keep love and faith in your heart, even if it's not faith in God. One you give, the other you receive.
I wish you all love! I wish you all peace!
Love is Never Wrong!
I reached out to some who were most dear to me and made time for them. I contacted the dearest in my heart and made an effort to say things I feel I must, to be spoken, to be complete. But he, for whatever reason, did not show interest. So I sit alone with heavy things weighing down my heart.
Being truthful I told some I know my heartache of being unsettled and hurt, knowing full well I will carry it until it gets satisfied. Their reply was forget him, don't let it get to you, find someone else to talk to...
You know those words are nice and practical to many but not me. My very core, its fabric, is love. To try and separate things from it would damage me irrevocably. I have always been this way. Some would say its obsession or a psychological disorder but it's not.
To me love is pure. I'm not saying I can not get jealous, have doubts, or lash out in rage if pushed enough. However I am saying everyone, no matter who, that has touched my heart is there no matter what they have done or chose to not be around me.
I've told you all about my time with T. He did some pretty horrible things to me and uprooted my life unjustly. Still I forgave him. It took me a long time but I forgave him. Even when he drove romantic love from my heart I still loved him and always shall. Love is me.
Let me describe it like this:
I am a favorite piece of clothing. I'm stunning and beautiful in your eyes. Yet my fabric loves to cling to lint which makes it unsettled in your eyes. So you take a lint brush and physically remove the lint. However you don't change the nature of the cloth. It still wants to cling. Maybe you use an anti-static spray to keep the lint at bay. You still don't change the nature of the fabric. You only place a barrier between it.
You can not change the nature of the fabric. Maybe your so desperate you try pulling out the threads that cling the most. Then you create runs which turn to holes, and eventually the fabric comes apart. Love when it's pure is forever. Try as you might if it is true it shall always be there. This is me.
Oh I get angry, tired, hurt like anyone else but it always comes to love. I always forgive and I always extend my hand. I don't give up on people. I try never to tear people down. My truth may hurt them at times but it comes with love which means it is always dignity and respect and from the heart.
Yes the pricks, tears, and pains carry with me for all time until peace can allow those pains to be surrendered unto the heart that needs to hear such. It may be scary or a tsunami of emotions but no one drowns in the warm gentle waves of true love. Because the simple truth is love raises you up to walk upon the waves.
You know I shared a lot about my time with M and the many things we dealt with and some of the wonders we attained. To this day I only want him to be happy. If he has found another I would be happy for love is taking care of him. With him love is also forever but his bears a special place in my heart. If I wrote a sonnet a day for a thousand years I could not express the feelings in my heart.
So I carry all I love in my heart for all time. Even when they cause me pain I carry that. Some of you may not understand that but pain can go with love and enduring separations, hardships, and denials
are one because they are connected to that love.
If my true love lived in Hell and I were in heaven I would clip my wings toss them to him so he could soar upwards as I jumped to the Earth. We would meet in embrace ignoring the protests from above and below because the truth of love is no price is to high when it is pure.
And for those of you with faith, know this. There is one thing Heaven and Hell have in common, love.
I could wax on about love as I already said but to clarify my topic title What is love? To me
I am love. All I touch are loved. All I connect with are love, for it is in them as well. So all those heartaches and pains some tell me to brush away or place a barrier to I say you can not change the nature of the fabric. And please don't damage me in your efforts to try for you will only destroy what is me.
The heartache and tears of a thousand years are nothing in the span of forever. And you know what? My love is forever. I hope each and every one of you gets a chance to know such grace. Till then keep love and faith in your heart, even if it's not faith in God. One you give, the other you receive.
I wish you all love! I wish you all peace!
Love is Never Wrong!
Fear
Fear, I think we all know how it feel or its effects upon us. The biggest is the hesitation it brings upon us. Sometimes it is only temporary but for some it drags on and on. Sadly that also makes it a part of your life.
When fear becomes part of your life it is much like barbed wire tied around your legs. Every time you move it is there, you feel it, and on every step it cuts into your flesh. To some they would rather feel that than deal with what they are avoiding.
It may seen counter to your minds view but always confront your fears. By all means keep caution but embrace the obstacles, people, and pains in your life. Live life with dignity. Live life with love. Also live life with humility.
In my own life right now I am reaching out to some people from my past to just talk and share so much that has gone unsaid for so long. Some are hesitant and I hear it in their voices. They put things off and delay.
I'm sure they are expecting so much more than what is actually there. Maybe there are things that will hurt them or me. I really don't know their reasons but I hear their hesitations and hesitations are fear. Fear that lovely monster in the closet we are so sure is out to get us.
I've known fear and a lot of it. It can paralyze if you allow it. Personally I don't like it. When I compose myself I try to deal with it. I suggest you do as well. If we do not we can not achieve love. And there is so many types of love from friends and family to romance and beyond.
If I have taught you all anything is love is worth investment and fighting for. So confront those fears that cloud your mind and embrace love. You will find things melt away and are no where near as bad as your mind made them to be.
Like I said before caution is fine but not fear. Live for love and live for life. Live in freedom!
Love is Never Wrong!
When fear becomes part of your life it is much like barbed wire tied around your legs. Every time you move it is there, you feel it, and on every step it cuts into your flesh. To some they would rather feel that than deal with what they are avoiding.
It may seen counter to your minds view but always confront your fears. By all means keep caution but embrace the obstacles, people, and pains in your life. Live life with dignity. Live life with love. Also live life with humility.
In my own life right now I am reaching out to some people from my past to just talk and share so much that has gone unsaid for so long. Some are hesitant and I hear it in their voices. They put things off and delay.
I'm sure they are expecting so much more than what is actually there. Maybe there are things that will hurt them or me. I really don't know their reasons but I hear their hesitations and hesitations are fear. Fear that lovely monster in the closet we are so sure is out to get us.
I've known fear and a lot of it. It can paralyze if you allow it. Personally I don't like it. When I compose myself I try to deal with it. I suggest you do as well. If we do not we can not achieve love. And there is so many types of love from friends and family to romance and beyond.
If I have taught you all anything is love is worth investment and fighting for. So confront those fears that cloud your mind and embrace love. You will find things melt away and are no where near as bad as your mind made them to be.
Like I said before caution is fine but not fear. Live for love and live for life. Live in freedom!
Love is Never Wrong!
Sunday, March 20, 2016
Do you Really Want To Hurt Me?
It's been thirty-four years since this release yet for many it still holds true. Funny how we have come so far but still lag behind. My suggestion is just as the video suggests. Open your prison door, walk out, sing, dance, and most especially live.
Love is Never Wrong!
Love is Never Wrong!
Saturday, March 19, 2016
A New Day
Today I have a message to the two men who enchanted my heart as I have told of late. The rest of you may watch as well. I have nothing hide. So, to the men of my heart, I have this to say.
Love is Never Wrong!
Love is Never Wrong!
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